New Year's offers everyone the opportunity to make a fresh start. With the stress of the holidays behind them, many unhappily married individuals will seek legal counsel in the coming year. It's a big step that usually comes after months or years of utter misery. While the first step is often celebratory, we shouldn't forget that The Road To a Decree can be long, windy and exhausting. Some personal rules, developed with a healthy ending in mind, can have a positive impact on the process. To those who have resolved to Start Over Without Him/Her in 2013, I'd like to suggest some additional resolutions, specific to your divorce…