What Do You Think?

Last century, during a previous career, I worked with a divorced guy whom I’ll call Tom. Tom was in his late twenties and had married and divorced young (no kids). He and his ex separated on decent terms. They were friendly enough to remain each other’s “agent” in their respective career fields.

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Your Opinion Please: Partners of Co-Parents

I’m somewhat fascinated by people who think negatively of their ex’s partner– or even the idea of a new partner. If Mr./Ms. Smith has such bad taste in (wo)men, what does that say about Mr./Ms. Smith’s ex-wife/husband? (am I offending anyone?) The phenomenon seems to occur more often when children are involved- I suppose because one parent feels they are being protective. Is it protective? Or damaging?

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